
Well it looks like we are going to have a sweet baby girl due around thanksgiving.
Aydin is going to be a great big brother to his little sister. We have also decided on the name
Adalee Elisabeth. We had our anatomy ultrasound on July 13
th and it was an overwhelming day to say the least. We went in so excited to confirm that we were in fact having a girl; we actually had a previous ultrasound at 16 weeks to check the gender with every intention of telling our family and friends the gender then but when the tech told us it was a girl we weren't 100% sure of that since we both kind of figured it would be a boy. We decided to wait until the big ultrasound at 20 weeks to confirm before telling everyone.
It was so amazing seeing our baby on the ultrasound and it was confirmed that the baby was still a girl!! The tech kept taking measurements of her stomach which was measuring small and she was also checking on the umbilical cord and we weren't really sure about why. She told us that everything looked good but there could be a cord issue due to placement that could cause the baby to be a little smaller but it wasn't something to necessarily worry about.
We sat in the doctor's office waiting to talk to Dr. Mulder for an hour and when she finally came to talk to us she didn't have great news. She said that she reviewed our ultrasound with Tracy our tech and she sees the problem that Tracy informed her of. She said there was an abnormality with the umbilical cord insertion. She said due to the way the baby was laying she couldn't tell if it was off to the left or right but she said that what this usually means is a diagnosis of
gastroschisis.
Gastroschisis is a birth defect in which the intestines stick out of the body from a defect in the umbilical cord. When I heard this news I was stunned, upset, and worried. I have seen this before on baby shows and it always means surgery and long hospital stays in the
NICU. I really wasn't prepared to hear bad news. She said she wasn't sure about how bad the case was but she would refer us to a specialist who could tell us more about the diagnosis.
I left the appointment so upset and anxious about what was to come. I wanted to see the specialist as soon as possible to know how bad things were and what we would be faced with. We were able to get an appointment two days later which I was greatful for; seeing as Dustin would be leaving out of town the next week for work. He was so strong and was my rock. He helped me to stay calm and remember to put my faith in god and remember that everything happens for a reason and we would be able to handle anything that was before us. He got me a St. Gerard necklace and we started praying the Novena to St. Gerard, the patron Saint of Motherhood. We prayed for the health of our unborn baby girl and put all our faith in God. We asked others to pray with us as we started this journey with our new baby girl. I started feeling more calm about the situation and was ready to face the specialist and hear what was to come. We went to our appointment Thursday afternoon and soon started our level 2 ultrasound which is much clearer of a picture of the baby and what could be going on. The tech took similar measurements that the first one took earlier in the week, she said everything looked good and also confirmed that the baby was a little girl. She looked around for about 30 minutes and said she really couldn't see any issues with the umbilical cord or any possibly birth defects or gastroschisis. The specialist came in and took a look also and said she really couldn't see anything wrong with our baby girl. She said the only thing she thought they might possibly mistake for an abnormality was most likely just an umbilical hernia which is nothing serious in comparison. She didn't see any evidence of gastroschisis. This was the best news possible and we were shocked. We had prepared ourselves for really bad news and we got the most amazing news possible. The doctor had no reason to suspect anything else causing this to appear later in pregnancy. We are amazed with this wonderful miracle! What a blessing to know that our baby girl is indeed healthy and growing well.
We have been continuing to pray and ask for St. Gerard 's intercession on our behalf to help keep our baby healthy and growing inside my belly. We have been thanking god for this wonderful miracle and can't be happier about having a baby girl. We would like to thank everyone for their continued prayers for our little girl, Adalee.